Chaos Theory
Its a scientific theory which tries to determine the underlying pattern in chaotic system like weather, ocean currents, blood system etc ... But there are few things in this world more chaotic than beat of the human heart, speeding up, slowing down, always changing depending on whats happening to us out there ... its erratic!"The relationship between time and you is always one of master and slave. Start each morning with your wish for the day, and then move right on in into your daily goal list. Remember to keep them in behavioral terms and be specific. Why? Because a specific list is a happy list. And don't forget it's chaos out there. We conquer that by taking control, setting priorities. Life cannot be based on whim. Those who fail to control whim are destined to be controlled by it."
I don't know much about this chaos theory, but if you look back in your life you will find out nothing seems to follow a pattern, things are naturally chaotic ... you play all your cards right, but there will always find a trump card which will scatter your winning pattern to the floor ... you might think you have control you are taking all decision right, but chaos will never go away ... question is when to give up ... and when to give in ... question when to stop worrying ... you might do everything right till now, but something will go wrong which you never expected ... there are things always going outside and inside of your scope ... we always keep a tab on inside but its the outside which makes things chaotic ... in life I have seen people doing things which may be unbelievable at first, unacceptable to norms of life ... even the most brave person takes a step back, the most trusting person cheats, the righteous person does a very wrong thing ... you inside system shatters ... becomes chaotic like ever ... what you do then? 1) you can accept / adapt ... increase your horizon, but its like opening a flood gate ... lots of thing will be there cluttering the small entrance of acceptance ... 2) you can ignore ... but ignoring you just don't accept now, postpone the decision, it will come back again ... 3) you can reject ... but what to reject when things happening all around ... you gain nothing thru rejection, not always though ... rejection is sometime good when there is great chance of hurting yourself. Dealing with all these makes you wiser or a loser who knows ... Somewhere I read this, I realized to be true is that "Life changes the question before you find the answer for it" ... True, life will never let you settle down, give you the pain when you are most comfortable ... you are always vulnerable to things around you ... there is no shield protecting you ... life is a bitch ... the chaos prevails, whatever list you make, whatever steps you take ... being good is not enough, being tough makes no difference .... all things seems to be calm and steady from outside, but always there is undercurrent flowing all the time with twist and turns like a tornado ... beware!
The last thing ... Underneath all of that, there is always a pattern, the truth ... its love, best thing about love is that, we choose to give it and we choose to receive it ... making it the least random act in entire universe. Its transcend bluff, transcend betrayal and all the dirt that makes us human ... if you figure that out then the world has nothing on you ...
